Our Story
2016 - High School Sweethearts
Our story began as friends. We slowly got to know each other through group projects, lunches, and bonfires. It wasn’t until the middle of our senior year that Trevor finally asked Alexandra on a real date, after many "study dates" where Trevor pretended to not understand calculus. What started as a weeknight dinner turned into everyday adventures: many frozen yogurt runs, hikes in Big Sur, and jacuzzies at the Ranch, dreaming about the future.
2016-2020 - College Years
We attended schools in different states—Trevor in Boulder, Colorado and Alexandra in Santa Barbara, California. Though we weren’t officially dating a few of these years, our visits were filled with catching up and picking up where we left off. We reconnected between our junior and senior years.
2020-2023 - Career Beginnings
After graduation, our career paths took us to different locations. Alexandra earned her Master's in Monterey while Trevor started his mortgage career in San Diego. We spent as much time together as possible, until Alexandra moved to San Diego full-time. Eventually, a job opportunity in Washington, D.C. led Alexandra to pursue her passion for environmental policy, but the miles didn’t get in the way. In 2023, Alexandra found a position in San Diego with her company, and we moved into a home together in Cardiff, ready for the next chapter.
November 2024 - The Proposal
Nine years later, Trevor proposed at Swamis meditation gardens. Afterward, we celebrated with friends and family who came into town to surprise Alexandra.
Italy - The Upcoming Wedding
As we plan for our wedding, we’re excited to celebrate in Italy. It’s the perfect setting to honor our heritages while enjoying great food, wine, and spending time with the people we care about most.